Pattr
Pattr
Connect with other dads, ask questions without judgment, and get real support from guys who understand what you're going through.
Join 2,000+ dads already on the waitlist
Fatherhood can be isolating. You're not alone in feeling overwhelmed, uncertain, or just needing someone who gets it.
of new dads feel unprepared
struggle with work-life balance
dads experience depression
Feeling like you don't know what you're doing
No one to ask the "stupid" questions
Losing your identity in fatherhood
Pressure to be the "perfect dad"
"I felt so alone as a new dad. My partner had mom groups, but where were the dad groups? I needed other guys who understood the pressure and uncertainty."
Mike, Dad of 2
Three simple steps to connect with a community that gets it
Sign up and verify you're a dad. We keep the community authentic and safe.
Join groups based on your interests, kids' ages, or situations you're facing.
Ask questions, share experiences, and build real friendships with other dads.
Every feature is designed around what dads actually need - authentic connection, honest support, and zero judgment.
Verified dads only. A safe space where you can be real about the struggles, wins, and everything in between.
Ask the questions you're afraid to ask. Share what you're really going through. All with complete anonymity when you need it.
Join groups by interests, kids' ages, or situations. From "New Dads" to "Single Dads" to "Work-From-Home Dads".
Chat one-on-one or in groups. Build genuine friendships with dads who understand your journey.
No question is too small or embarrassing. Get real answers from dads who've been there.
No experts or professionals - just honest, relatable support from guys living the dad life too.
Real feedback from beta testers who found their tribe on Pattr
Jake
Dad of 3
"Finally found a place where I can ask the embarrassing questions without judgment. The anonymous posting feature is a game-changer."
Rob
New Dad
"As a first-time dad, I was drowning in advice from everyone. Here, I get real talk from guys who actually understand what I'm going through."
David
Single Dad
"The single dad group has been incredible. Found guys in similar situations who became real friends, not just online connections."
We understand the importance of creating a safe space for dads to be vulnerable and real
All members verify they're dads to maintain authenticity and community trust.
Your personal information stays private. Share only what you're comfortable with.
Active moderation by fellow dads ensures respectful, supportive conversations.
Resources and support for dads struggling with mental health challenges.
Everything you need to know about joining the Pattr community
Be among the first dads to experience a community built just for you. Get early access and help shape the future of Pattr.