Pattr
Pattr
Connect with other dads, ask questions without judgment, and get real support from guys who understand what you're going through.
Fatherhood can be isolating. You're not alone in feeling overwhelmed, uncertain, or just needing someone who gets it.
of new dads report increased stress
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dads feel isolated in their first year
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want more support for their mental health
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The pressure to provide
No support groups for dads
Losing your sense of self
Worrying you're not doing enough
"When my son was born, I noticed straight away how many apps, groups and communities there are for new mums. But for dads? Nothing. None of my mates are going through this at the same time as me, and I just wanted to chat with other guys who I can relate to - that's why I created Pattr."
Callum, New Dad and Creator of Pattr
Every feature is designed around what dads actually need - authentic connection, honest support, and zero judgment.
Verified dads only. A safe space where you can be real about the struggles, wins, and everything in between.
Ask the questions you're afraid to ask. Share what you're really going through. All with complete anonymity when you need it.
Join groups by interests, kids' ages, or situations. From "New Dads" to "Single Dads" to "Work-From-Home Dads".
Chat one-on-one or in groups. Build genuine friendships with dads who understand your journey.
No question is too small or embarrassing. Get real answers from dads who've been there.
No experts or professionals - just honest, relatable support from guys living the dad life too.
Be among the first dads to experience a community built just for you. Get early access and help shape the future of Pattr.